Thoughts of the Worm

"Friends come and go... Family and true love stays forever - they will never keep you hanged or in doubt."  And that's something I will remember for a life time. Thanks buddy - you always enlighten me with your 'tips from the king' - you always tell me what I SHOULD be doing when I lose focus, when I lose the jest for things and when the terrible emotional-ME begins to flap her wings to soar high! ;p ;p  You are always here and you know when I need that kick in a full throttle - a kick to get me back to my senses.  - You 'delete' people from my cellphone ('the-temporary-solution-tip') ! *frown* - You 'write' on Whatsapp *frowns again* - You 'walk me' through places for self-realization *frowns* - You 'taste' the curry ... add extra salt to it and crib it's salty! *stares* - You 'read' me when I turn poker-face *grins* - You 'calm' me when I turn nuts *smiles* - You 'leave'...

Let's say you're traveling with a bunch of buddies. One of your close people (who isn't a part on the trip) and you are having an on and off SMS conversation. You're not ignoring your trip buddies and having a good time. At the same time you keep the SMS conversation on. This is a good picture, isn't it? Well, then one of your trip buddies gets really pissed off over this. He tries to grab your phone and yells at you to stop the SMS conv - well, this being none of his business. And again he goes - "concentrate on your friends around right now". You do feel bad and embarrassed, yet end the SMS-conv with that person of yours and "concentrate" on the group. Sounds okay till now? After an hour or so, this very 'pissed-bud' (that's what I'm gonna call him henceforth) calls his family to get the address of some resort where his mum and her office mates have been put up for some weekend trip. He is then involved in a looong conversa...

Mom - 'What about marriage?'  Daughter - 'Whats the need for marriage? Can't you see how happy I am right now?' Mom - 'That's not how life goes dear.. you're happy right now, but then many years down the line, you'll need someone to be there beside you..' Daughter - 'Not really.. I really don't think I'll ever feel that way. I've had enough with this need of having someone beside me. It's not my destiny.' Mom - 'Not all men are alike. There will definitely be someone out there who you'll be able to sync with..' Daughter  (to herself) - 'I already had that someone..but that's not possible. I failed to understand and also misinterpreted a few things , it's a signal that I ain't ready for this.' (to mom) - 'Leave it mom...' Mom - 'I'm not taking this from you anymore. You better let me know If I can go ahead with the man-hunting for you or are you already se...

What happens to the molten rock that is thrown out by the volcano after the explosion? - Turns into a good sturdy rock after going through all the "solidification" and "cooling" process. And what happens to the emotions that are thrown out by you after a self-realization? - Turn into a good sturdy "you" after going through all the "pain" and "self-pacifying" process. Bring down the sky or let out the molten rock - doesn't matter. It's over. "It's Over" doesn't mean you let go of everything. The lava rock will never forget the process it went through - it simply can't. What does it do? Accept the fact that it was destined to be formed after going through the high temperature unlike the other rocks that must have never been through such a process. But it doesn't stop hoping that one fine day a tiny life will grow on it and blossom into a beautiful tree. Neither does its love for the "proce...

Give a f***k to people who are UNSURE about your place in their life. Yes, it does make you feel bad at times, recalling the moments you spent together, but it isn't worth remembering those moments. Whats the  use of going through all the pain and tears - when you know its not going to work. Whats the use of drowning yourself into alcohol, drugs and other evil temptations just to divert yourself from the pain some unworthy freak gave you? You cannot destroy your precious life for someone so stupid to keep you as an OPTION in their life. You're life is not worth that... its something that you're blessed with just once... just once and you don't have the least idea when you'll be forced to leave it - and all you do is cry and spend precious moments in remembering how good it "WAS". Solution? - "Prevention is better than cure" - never fall for it. :) Zimble. Nothing is more dreadful than falling into something you aren't  made for. It...

How can somebody love someone so much that they hate their feeling of 'love' for the other person? It sends a chill down her spine when she remembers their moments spent together - It was just perfect... little fights - a punch here and a tickle there, messing up his neatly set hair, fighting for the biggest piece of pizza or garlic bread, singing the most weirdest song in the car together, trying out a cig - puking after taking the first puff and promising never to have it again, swearing every time never to talk with each other on realizing their paths are different, doing the strangle-drama every time she calls him by a very-specific-funny-name, yelling at him when he forgets his meal card and then borrows it from a friend, yelling at him for having some stupid fries over a good dinner, getting an elevated blood pressure when the car runs on petrol instead of cng which finally lands them up waiting for over an hour at the gas station, not letting her play 'fruit-s...

Some are just meant to be there... Be it any god damn situation you are in, they are there. They frustrate you, They so love to trouble you, They help you, They care for you, They love you. They are just like another part of you... You might have taken some time to realize that, but then deep within you always knew that they are The Ones. Thanks for being there Yesterday and Today... hope you'll be there in the coming days too! :)