life is more than this....

Give a f***k to people who are UNSURE about your place in their life. Yes, it does make you feel bad at times, recalling the moments you spent together, but it isn't worth remembering those moments. Whats the  use of going through all the pain and tears - when you know its not going to work. Whats the use of drowning yourself into alcohol, drugs and other evil temptations just to divert yourself from the pain some unworthy freak gave you?

You cannot destroy your precious life for someone so stupid to keep you as an OPTION in their life. You're life is not worth that... its something that you're blessed with just once... just once and you don't have the least idea when you'll be forced to leave it - and all you do is cry and spend precious moments in remembering how good it "WAS".

Solution? - "Prevention is better than cure" - never fall for it. :) Zimble.
Nothing is more dreadful than falling into something you aren't  made for. It's just like you take up a wrong career decision and later realize that you cannot come out it!

Hate arises from the love you've had for that person. And when they leave you, you are caught in DABDA. I just love this word.. dabda dabda - Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance.

Never fall into Denial, Bargaining and Depression - You'll end up being another "Devdas"
I personally believe Anger and Acceptance can ease life to a great extent.

"Accepting" the loss is a long process because it takes awhile for you to digest the reality. It also means altering your feelings altogether and ofcourse this doesnt happen in a jiffy. And by the time you think you've accepted it, you've lost some of you're life most precious moments.

"Hating" the person will eventually lead you into believing that he/she was not meant for you which indirectly makes the moments you spent together disappear from your memory. Never ever meet the person and make sure you don't have a thing that belongs to that person. The person never existed. Simple and easy!

Let me tell you one thing - Love doesnt have to be just with someone you think is your soulmate. And you don't have to destroy your life for ONE worthless person - of course you should, if they are worth it. :)

If there is no soulmate or you think/believe that you won't ever be with someone... that doesn't mean you are doomed. Your purpose in life isn't just being with "someone", its more than that. And remember.. your people love you immensely.. LOVE them instead of WASTING your life, time and money looking out for SUCH people. They aren't worth it.

Invest your time in friends, family, hobbies, society... make this world a better place to live in. When people will love you for what you have given them, what you do for them, that is the time you've fulfilled your purpose in life.

 "Don't go through life ; Grow through life"

PS: Whoa.. that was a pretty long post ! >.<