Never Leave

You have to change at times.. and sometimes its for the better. Love your People. Only they will be with you until the end. Love them, thank them, be with them and never leave them. Never be "Done" with these people. They are YOUR people. Fight, crib, argue, complain... do everything but Leave. New people in life are good - no doubt, but these people you've been growing with since ages, are a part of you. Being "Done" with them is like throwing away a part of you, being irresponsible and then also being proud about it - this is one selfish attitude. Sometimes these lessons are tough to learn. And when Life is the teacher - mention not. :P 

I learnt it the hard way - but I'm glad I learnt it. I thank those people because of who I had to go through those tough trials, judge myself, blame myself, blame God, try to stay strong when I wasn't, not pay heed to the feelings of the people worth staying in my life for one person who I was never worth - but a mere means of spending time with. I let that person control my emotions and my thoughts, turn me dependent and lose my confidence. I learnt it the hard way - but I learnt it.

Blocking on Whatsapp or Facebook is easy - one click of a button and that person is out. Blocking the thoughts of people who you love and are hurting you sounds pretty next to impossible. Solution? - Never block! These people will hurt you. You will hurt them. This is bound to happen. But if you are being "done" with them just due to these reasons, you need to change - not them but your attitude. Ego, attitude.. all these things are worthless when it comes to people we love. Do everything in the world N number of times to make them stay. They are your people! Be possessive about them.. Fear losing them.. Fear them getting involved with wrong people.. in wrong company. And if these things happen to you and you get irritated, remember, your people love you - they really do. They are attached to you and will fight the world to keep you safe. :)

 

I promise today - to NEVER LEAVE my People. Come what may - I will fight, crib, argue, cry... but in the end, they will be my people and I will stick to them like glue. I might yell at them, complain, be rude, say that I hate them... but again in the end, they are My people. I will always protect and care for them until my last breath. :)